Religious, Xenophobic and Pro-life

Are people embarrassed by words like "xenophobic" being applied to them (Populist Republicans)"Anti-environmental. . . Little concern for the poor. Unsupportive of the women's movement." (Staunch Republicans) "Anti-immigrant and intolerant of homosexuality." (disaffected) "Uninterested . . . Rarely vote." (Bystander) "people should be willing to fight for the country whether it is right or wrong." (Socially Conservative Democrats) "Not very well educated. . . Largest group of single mothers." (Partisan Poor) Shouldn't this all be incredibly embarrassing? As you can see, I have a hard time understanding some other people's logic. Why can't you be more like me (liberal Democrat who thinks he is independent)? The world would make a whole lot more sense. And would be better looking.